Understanding Narcissism, a Thirst for Constant Validation

Jakarta – Narcissism, or Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), is a personality disorder in which people have an inflated opinion of themselves. They also have an intense need for the admiration and attention of others.

People with NPD may be unhappy and disappointed when they don’t receive the praise or special favors they believe they deserve. Others may see them as snobbish and conceited, and may not enjoy being around them.

Citing the National Library of Medicine, narcissism can affect 6.2 percent of the population and tends to affect men more than women. People who show strong symptoms of this are able to manage their problem through changes in certain lifestyles and psychotherapy. 

People with narcissism are usually described as arrogant, selfish, and demanding. They often have high self-esteem and may believe that they are special or superior to others. However, they seem to need excessive praise and admiration and can react badly to criticism.

Narcissists also tend to exaggerate their accomplishments while underestimating others. They are usually preoccupied with power, success, and physicality. They may even engage in impulsive behavior, such as gambling or certain sexual behaviors. Narcissism usually appears in early adulthood.

The cause of this is still unclear, and genetical factor is considered to at least affect some cases of narcissism. However, the environment in the person’s upbringing can also contribute, such as violence or abandonment in a person’s childhood and unrealistic expectations from parents.